SERMON
PREACHED AT St AIDAN’S, ALEXANDRA
and
ST JAMES’, ROXBURGH
THIRTY
SECOND ORDINARY SUNDAY
November
8th 2026Josh
24:1-3a,14-25
Ps
78:1-7
1
Thess 4:13-18
Matthew
25: 1-13
“Then the kingdom of heaven will be
like this. Ten young women took their lamps and went to meet the
bridegroom. 2 Five of them
were foolish, and five were wise. 3 When the foolish
took their lamps, they took no oil with them, 4 but the
wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. 5 As the
bridegroom was delayed, all of them became drowsy and slept. 6 But
at midnight there was a shout, ‘Look! Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet
him.’ 7 Then all those young women got up and trimmed their lamps. 8 The
foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going
out.’ 9 But the wise replied, ‘No! there will not be
enough for you and for us; you had better go to the dealers and buy some for
yourselves.’ 10 And while they went to buy it, the
bridegroom came, and those who were ready went with him into the wedding
banquet, and the door was shut. 11 Later the other young women came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open
to us.’ 12 But he replied, ‘Truly I tell you, I do not
know you.’ 13 Keep awake, therefore, for you know
neither the day nor the hour.
It is a sad reflection
on Christian teaching that to preach on any of
the Coming of the Reign parables require a sort of health warning, akin
to those you find on a website that contains images that some viewers may find disturbing.
In Australia websites often include the warning that the site may include names
or pictures of deceased persons – these days the names are generally disguised
with an acceptable nickname.
And as a further
aside I want to add – and some of you may have seen this – that it has been a
sad reflection on the state of human society that the internet has been chock
full of speculation and blame following the tragic crash of a Lear jet in
Florida this past week. Particularly demonic, and I do not use the word
lightly, has been the contrast drawn between the final words of the young and
brave co-pilot, replayed ad nauseum across the web, and those of the
pilot.
When Jesus spoke
of the closure of life he did so respectfully, in parables, not with brutal
depictions of human beings’ all-too human fear in the face of sudden death. To
move away from the Florida tragedy, permit me to quote my own book on Hebrews:
I have a faint memory of a
Christian book written in the months following the Tenerife air disaster of
March 1977. The author laments the cry of desperation from one of the crew in
his last moments of life, dismissing it as a blasphemous outrage separating the
speaker from salvation for all eternity: according to transcripts of the
tragedy the pilot of the PanAm flight exclaimed “Goddamn that son-of-a-bitch is
coming!” ten seconds before the collision.
The God of the author of
Hebrews would not be defeated by the desperate and all too human cry of a man
about to die. I know that when I once experienced a front tire blowout on a
motorcycle travelling at speed on an Australian freeway I did not have the presence
of mind to utter a prayer, and fear my utterance was far more monosyllabic!
That does not mean I did not mumble a shocked prayer of thanksgiving when
eventually the bike stopped and I emerged from the “tank-slapper” experience
unscathed.
Enough, then, of
that, except to ask that, as you are willing, you whisper a few prayers for
those killed in and those who mourn the Florida tragedy.
Though in this
context I must mention too the sad news that many of us have received from
Bishop Anne, that Sue McCafferty was struck down by a stroke on Wednesday, and
that her condition at time of writing critical. Please keep Sue and her loved
ones in your prayers.
But what have the
ten virgins – discreetly called, in my version of the bible, ten wedding
attendants – what have they to do with the solemn situations I have referred to?
The parable of
course does hold us responsible for our preparation for our own death. Life is
in some ways entirely a journey or preparation for death. It is sometimes said,
somewhat fatuously, that we die as we have lived. Some do. Some don’t. And that
differentiation is not to any significant degree altered by the degree of faith
or unfaith, or even the type of faith owned by the dying person. I have been
with believers who have faced their death with obvious terror – I make no
guarantee that I would do otherwise, particularly if death came hurtling at me at
nearly 600 kilometres per hour. I have been with non- and un-believers who
faced their death with holy calm, though they might not thank me for those
words.
So what gauntlet
is Jesus throwing at our feet as he tells of the ten wedding attendants? I am
not one to see the moment of dying as the irreversible summary of our eternal
future. Were I to use a blasphemy or swear vehemently in the moment of my death,
and that is quite possible, I do not believe that I am in that moment condemned
to suffer separation from those I love for all eternity. Indeed I’m not sure that
there can be in the hands of a loving, creating God a decision that separates
humans from those they love eternally.
Matthew in his
telling of Jesus stories usually includes lots of gnashing of teeth and wailing,
although funnily enough on this occasion he does not. I don't think that is the
focal point of Jesus’ parable.
Nor do I think
that God is a God who nonchalantly waves away our degradation, our falling
short, our propensity for what Christianity has come to call sin. I have no
idea incidentally where the actual 3 lettered word “sin” comes from and can
find no explanation easily, but it is well known that the concept was that of
an arrow falling short of its target. That concept is one for which for which
an entirely unrelated word, hamartia, was used.
I have no
difficulty with that word for I know that every hour if not every minute of my
life is packed with shortfallings somewhere on a range from humorous to awful.
Jesus in his
parable is asking us so to live that those shortfallings do not have the final
word. That falling short of the human capacity to love, to love God with all
heart mind soul and strength, to love neighbour as self, to love creation, is
universal. The work of the incarnation is that this universal human state is
not the final word in our life. In reality for most of us it will be the last
state we experience – few of us are majestically holy. I don't meet many saints
of the absolutely celestially pure type. But that saintly is not altogether
expected of us. That is an ideal to which I and probably some of you won’t
reach this side of the coming of the bridegroom.
Ultimately I think
this parable like so many of the apocalyptic parables and writings is designed
not to put into us the fear of eternal hellfire but the encouragement to
persevere, to try to be better, and though I am not usually one to quote
Melania Trump, to “be best.” Or to be best as best we can.
The entire witness
of scripture of course indicates that we cannot do that on our own. It is for
that reason that we are asked to be a worshipping praying God-seeking people, individually
and collectively. May we be amongst those who trimmed their lamps. It’s all so
much easier to live and to die when we are.






