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Monday, 14 April 2025

God, who suckles us

 

SERMON PREACHED AT St JOHN’S EAST BENTLEIGH

SECOND SUNDAY OF LENT

(SUNDAY 13th March) 1988

Please note: the photos in this blog post were taken 37 years after the sermon was written and preached, at the consecration of Dr Anne van Gend, and her installation as Bishop of Dunedin, March 29, 2025. These were events I could not have foreseen in 1988, nor imagined I would have any connection to them. 


In our series of Lenten study sermons, we have been travelling with our Lord from the dreadful scourging that he received at the hands of Pilate’s henchmen towards the seemingly tragic and utterly lonely death on the cross. Last week Debra [Saffrey] reminded us of the moment when Christ stumbled on his pain-filled journey towards Golgotha. This week we turn our attention in one sense away from Jesus and dwell for a moment instead on that group who remained faithful to him when all others had fled; the band of frightened, sorrowing, but determined women. But in thus turning our attention away from Jesus we shall, I believe, discover new depths – or be reminded of truths we may have forgotten – concerning our Lord.

As I picture that poignant moment near to the end of the life of Christ I picture also another group of sorrowing but determined women that I have seen myself, and seen recently. Some of you may have been following the excellent series Women on Women that has been screened on Channel 2; last Thursday the documentary “The Fully Ordained Meet Pie” was shown as part of that series. The documentary covered the fight of women to be ordained, and, towards the end showed footage of the last General Synod at which the Ordination of Women to the Priesthood was narrowly defeated in the patriarchal House of Clergy. As the women left the auditorium weeping and singing “we shall be ordained,” they must have known all too clearly the pain of the women who remained faithful to Jesus even on the cross, when all others had fled. We may in the next few minutes find another connection between these two groups of mourning women.

Legend has it that at one stage, as Jesus staggered beneath the weight of his cross, a woman who has become known to posterity as “Veronica” offered her headcloth to Jesus so he could wipe away his sweat and blood. While there is no biblical evidence for this scene, which has become one of the fourteen Stations of the Cross, and while fundamentalists might sneer at it, it is a highly possible incident. Certainly, Luke records another incident where Jesus turns to a crowd of weeping women following him and says,

Daughters of Jerusalem, weep not for me,

but weep for yourselves and for your children.

                                                                (Luke 23: 27-28)

 

Just who that group of women were, and whether they were weeping specifically for the plight of Jesus, or whether for the hideous spectacle that presented itself each time a criminal was crucified, we cannot tell. Whatever the case, the compassion of Jesus towards the women is remarkable. For Jesus lived in a culture that scorned women, a culture that treated women as property, that divorced women at will, and that remained terrified of the female body. Jesus turns even in his pain, and has compassion on the women, as he has done so often in the gospel narrative. It is, it seems, women who see most clearly into the heart of Jesus. In Mark’s account of the gospel it is the women who first received the good news of Easter and who are commissioned to proclaim that news first to the disciples and then to the world.

In terms of modern psychology, we might say that Jesus appears to have responded to women from the depths of his own femininity. It is a widely held belief that none of us can claim to be utterly masculine or to be utterly feminine in our psychological makeup, but hold together within our psyche elements of both. The Orientals in their mysticism speak of Yin and Yang, while Jungian psychology speaks of the animus and anima, our masculine and feminine aspects. It is in a society where we are not able to hold those opposites in tension within us that we find enormous and subtle evil; the male dominated culture of ancient Rome, and most of the known ancient world, is an example of all that can run amok when the balance is lost, and where creativity, sensitivity and nurturance become forgotten irrelevancies.

But whatever is within Jesus at any point in the gospel record is within the deepest being of God, Father, Son, and Spirit. We scratch with great inadequacy to find ways in which to express this truth in words, but we must in the end affirm the simple truth that if both man and woman are created in the image of God then the being of God must incorporate both what we call masculine and what we call feminine. The ancient biblical writers saw that truth only too clearly.

In my favourite New Testament passage our Lord cries out as it were with the pain that only a parent can know,

Oh, Jerusalem, Jerusalem, killing the prophets and stoning those who are sent to you. How often would I have gathered your children together as a hen gathers her brood but you would not!

                                                                                                   (Matt. 23: 37)

The same image is frequently used of God the Father in the Old Testament literature:

How precious is thy steadfast love, oh God!

The children of men take refuge in the shadow of thy wings.

                                                                                                   (Ps. 36:7)

The imagery is feminine – the pain or heartache of parenthood is certainly within the experience of God, but so too is that specific experience that Joyce Nicholson refers to as “the heartache of motherhood.” [[1]]

Some of you may at this point be wondering what I am driving at, what kind of a statement I am wanting to make about our triune God. I do not wish to say to you that God is Mother – not exclusively. Jesus, in the Garden of Gethsemane, cries out in his anguish,

Abba, Father, all things are possible to thee.

                                                                (Mark 14: 36)

There can be no doubt that he saw his relationship to God as an intimate one of Son to Father. But neither do I want us to go away with the misconception that we may see and speak of our God as exclusively masculine. God, Father, Son and Spirit, is masculine but is so much more. God, Father, Son and Spirit, is feminine, but is so much more. God, Father, Son and Spirit, dare I say it, is androgynous, and is so much more.

The women around Jesus at his otherwise isolated end were there, I would suggest, precisely because they had discovered in him a kindred spirit. It is fascinating that mystical-feminist women and men have often turned to speak of Jesus with great sisterly affection. Many mediaeval mystics speak of being suckled by the risen, wounded Christ, and the mystical Julian of Norwich, saint, was probably the first woman to produce a complex theology of the motherhood of God. We must equally be open to explore that notion.

And it is for precisely this reason that I believe we must strive on towards the ordination of women to both priesthood and the episcopate, the vocation of bishop. The argument should have little to do with contemporary feminist consciousness, but everything to do with the nature of the God we love and serve. If deacon, priest and bishop are called specifically to be a sign of God’s presence in our midst, and are signs of different aspects of the personality of God, then we cannot afford to go on presenting an exclusively masculine image of God.

What, then, has this to do with Lent, and with the journey of our Lord from the scourging to the cross? I believe that if we read sensitively and perceptively our gospel we will constantly find our image of God to be broadening. I am relatively conservative. I do not (yet) want us to begin addressing our God as mother, though many do, and I too may one day decide that it is a necessary corrective to our masculine imagery of God. But I do want us to realize increasingly that the Jesus who we proclaim to the world reveals to us a God who is the God who gives us birth – and rebirth – and who is so much more vast than we can ever wholly realize.

And so, as we with Jesus trudge towards Golgotha, let us realize the significance of the fact that it is the women who are now the only ones faithful, and that it is precisely the women, despised by society, who have been most closely touched by Christ-love.

And let us give thanks to our God, Father, Son and Spirit, who creates, suckles, nurtures and defends us throughout our lives.

Amen.



[1] Joyce Nicholson, The Heartache of Motherhood. Harmondsworth, Penguin, 1983.

1 comment:

Judy N said...

Thank you Michael you have put it so I can understand and agree with.